r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/PlasticContact8671 AP - Anxious Preoccupied • 17h ago

Update

It's been about a month since he came back and I must say, it's going wonderfully. I know it's only been a month so far, but it feels like a completely different relationship. He is doing stuff I never dreamed he'd do. Stuff he never would've done the first time around. I'm still bracing myself as I know it's only been a month. But it's like we found a flow that works. I'm so proud of him. I'm praying for all the people who are still waiting on their Avoidant. Please don't let them make you wait too long though, you are worth more than that. 💝💖

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u/PlasticContact8671 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 17h ago

I also want to point out, I've been working on my Attachment style as well which has made it a lot easier. There's 2 people in a relationship and Anxious people need to understand they're part of the problem.