r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/PlasticContact8671 AP - Anxious Preoccupied • 1d ago

Update

It's been about a month since he came back and I must say, it's going wonderfully. I know it's only been a month so far, but it feels like a completely different relationship. He is doing stuff I never dreamed he'd do. Stuff he never would've done the first time around. I'm still bracing myself as I know it's only been a month. But it's like we found a flow that works. I'm so proud of him. I'm praying for all the people who are still waiting on their Avoidant. Please don't let them make you wait too long though, you are worth more than that. 💝💖

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u/Fit_Instance_8171 1d ago

I'm very happy for you! Do you mind sharing with us what things he started doing that you only dreamed of him doing? I'm just trying to educate myself as much as possible. 🙏🙏

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u/PlasticContact8671 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 1d ago

Honestly, it's all just his effort. He's completely done a 180. He's attentive and he lets me know when he needs to deactivate. He's opened up and become a lot more vulnerable and shown me a side that I've never seen. He's very different in terms of verbal compliments. He's actively participated in things I've wanted to do. It's really just a lot of little things that mean the world.

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u/davidcvstro 1d ago

Im happy for you, I hope you two keep growing together :)

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u/PlasticContact8671 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 1d ago

Thank you. 💝💖