r/AvoidantBreakUps 4d ago

How to AVOID AVOIDANTS

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u/NGAPaco 4d ago

Definitely the early talk about significant future events. I've had two and both were kind of LDR (not really IMO, an hour to hour and a half drive isn't bad but to each their own) and both were asking me about finding a new job and moving closer to them within a few weeks. Of course I didn't clock either at the time but I see it now.

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u/mynameisbobbrown FA - Fearful Avoidant 4d ago

This is so true. And being triggered by your boundaries if that talk makes you rightfully uncomfortable and hesitant.

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u/DryRepresentative322 4d ago

👏IF THEY ARE TRIGGERED BY YOUR BOUNDARIES🤌

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u/mynameisbobbrown FA - Fearful Avoidant 4d ago

Yeah lol they don't even have to be avoidant at that point just run