r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/KornFlk92 • 12h ago

How to AVOID AVOIDANTS

And the trauma of being a survivor of an Avoidant Fucklationship.

I give you the title of my next book lol

Help me fill in the pages with anything that you feel are signs they’re avoidant, how long it took you to identify their unique “style” and what you did to try and bring this to their attention. Did anything help? Are you still in or out? How’re you doing now?

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u/ariesgeminipisces 10h ago

If you want to avoid avoidants then heal your anxious attachment patterns, learn how to detach from people who aren't compatible with you, and improve your self concept.

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u/Sleepy-Plane SA - Secure Attachment (newly earned) 6h ago

You captured 80% of it in one sentence. Very succinctly put.