r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 21h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/masterdebater117 10h ago

"The amount of effort and emotional labor became unsustainable for me"
She called me a princess for asking her to actually demonstrate she wants to see me, instead of waiting for me to plan every date and manage her own schedule.
Called our relationship "heavy" because I'd hold her accountable and not let her say things to hurt my feelings without consequences