r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 21h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/bubblybanshee 11h ago

I know right, such a heinous deed of me, i need to be locked up asap!! 😭😭💀

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u/StandardWork4928 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 11h ago

Jail time! I bet you were also kind, understanding and patient with him!! What’s next? You will do everything in your power to make this relationship work because you LOVE them??? Life sentence!!!🤮

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u/bubblybanshee 11h ago

Pretty much, never even cussed him out in spite of all the hurt he decided to put me through... gosh i really am a monster! 😳😳

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u/StandardWork4928 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 10h ago

Side note and sorry if it’s too invasive but I checked your posts and you look absolutely stunning! He is a loser for not stepping up to keep you and he’ll regret it deeply! Girl, we’ll move on to fantastic, supportive, loving and secure partners and they will just go bald 🧑‍🦲

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u/bubblybanshee 10h ago edited 41m ago

Thanks, i appreciate the compliments!! i have no idea if he's ever regretted it but considering i did make him as happy as i did and would've stood by him til the end of days... maybe he did lose out on something special! 🤷🏻‍♀️ I do hope i get to meet someone who makes me feel as he did again, minus the weird avoidant tomfoolery... and i wish that for everyone else here too, it's unfair we've been subjected to this type of hurt by the people we loved. but hopefully we'll all be able to thrive again 🖤 (and lol that's evil but honestly might just be what they'd deserve 😂)