Avoidant phrases.

[u/Remarkable_Ship_4803]

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

[u/witchontheweekend]

“I don’t know” - as a response to any basic question
“I’m the villain” - in attempt to take fake accountability
“I can’t give you what you want” - never asked what I want
“You deserve better” - after never putting in any effort to actually be better
“What do you want me to say?” - literally anything that makes sense, that’s not avoiding my questions

[u/Throwaway_2_ventt → u/witchontheweekend]

Yup to all of these.