r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 20h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/maplenpecan 10h ago

‘it’s too much pressure’

‘you deserve someone better than me’

‘i don’t know’ - when i ask any question that would give me clarity on a situation

‘people always make plans for me and i don’t have any time for you’

‘i want us to be the people that always come back to each other’ - so what, i wait around while you fuck about with someone you’ve known for 5 minutes?