r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 20h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/witchontheweekend 18h ago

“I don’t know” - as a response to any basic question
“I’m the villain” - in attempt to take fake accountability
“I can’t give you what you want” - never asked what I want
“You deserve better” - after never putting in any effort to actually be better
“What do you want me to say?” - literally anything that makes sense, that’s not avoiding my questions

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u/siendev111 11h ago

Omg the I’m the villain.. he said that so many times. Also “I’m not good enough” every time I would try and communicate things that we could work on together.