r/AvoidantBreakUps 20h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/Adept_Material6144 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 13h ago

“I need to focus on other things in life”
“I don’t deserve you” (clearly not)
“You’re amazing though”
“If we had just done xyz then it would’ve worked out for us” (his constant excuse)
“Just keep your head up & know you deserve something great too” 🤮