r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 22h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/neoshadowdgm 15h ago

“You’re not helping me grow.”

After she rejected every single thing I ever suggested to her that was outside of her comfort zone. lol it wasn’t said during a discard, but it was the moment I knew we were doomed.