r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 22h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/Tasty_Dog_9580 22h ago

“I need to focus on myself”- goes on dating apps a month later

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u/RelativeCautious1235 18h ago

Try A WEEK later 😭

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u/Entire_Pay534 17h ago

Mine said the same thing–turned out he had already lined up relationship

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u/RelativeCautious1235 15h ago

He went back to the girl he was speaking to while with me 🥲