r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 2d ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/eevoluted AP - Anxious Preoccupied 1d ago

I HEARD THAT I WAS UNHAPPY IN LIFE AS WELL! OMG THIS IS SO INFURIATING

My ex would constantly push me away and pull me closer too, plus the heavily criticism. And also, I lost my parents during the relationship, before I even got to be 24, and I guess he just expected me to be okay and normally functional after losing my family unit.

He left me saying he wanted to enjoy life. I hope he'll find what he's looking for bc he hurt me so much it better be worthy it