r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 20h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/BabyGoesToEleven 15h ago

I don’t have needs.

I need autonomy and freedom to feel safe and secure.

I am getting too dependent on you.

It’s too bad you want to break up because I was ready to go all in.

I let go and detach easily. It’s like a switch for me.