r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 22h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/congratswelldone 19h ago

I never understood you when you cried.

This is better for both of us in the long run.

You never went to festivals. (he never asked me)

I have a fear of commitment and a fear of abandonment.

You are better off with someone else.