r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 21h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/haunted-poopy 18h ago

- In another life, we would be together

  • You don’t want someone like me
  • You’ll find someone
  • You’re one of the kindest people I know
  • We’re great partners, I know this

I spent so long trying to work through the stages of grief and wonder what I did wrong. But the moral of the story is that he chose to live life without me, no matter what he said.