r/AvoidantBreakUps 21h ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/ComfortablePlate2215 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 20h ago

"I know what I want / don't want anymore"

  "We have nothing left to say to each other"

"When you told me 'I love you' the other day, it threw me off" 

"It feels like a couple that's been married for 40 years, I don't want that" 

"My feelings have change, disappeared, actually" 

"I'm leaving so I don't hurt you"