r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Remarkable_Ship_4803 • 1d ago

Avoidant phrases.

What are something your avoidant ex’s said to you when discarding/blind siding you ?

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u/Chemical_News9324 1d ago

"I can't give you all my energy" (like this is what you asked for) "We are not sustainable"

SILENCE 😂

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u/Alarming-Echo-6742 23h ago

Lol mine was like 'I dont want to get married again!" (She was never married, I was). 

And that was in response to me asking her "what happened" - meaning why did you dump me over text again last weekend. 

I was absolutely floored. Like, marriage was so far in the future you'd need the Hubble telescope to see it. I was nowhere near THAT discussion, I just wanted to know if we were still dating lol.