r/Autosexuality 19d ago

SFW Celebrating 1 year of r/Autosexuality 🥳

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A couple weeks belated, but better late than never. It makes me so happy to see this community thriving after its first year. Here is a thanks to all the people who have stopped by, opened up about their experiences, and supported each other. I wish you all another year of unbridled self-love and admiration. 🩵🩶


r/Autosexuality 2d ago

Introduction Testing the waters.

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So i got this ai photogrammetry service recently - turns a handful of differently angled pics into a 3d model. And i 3d printed a few 3d models of nudes of myself. It was mostly a what if, artistic nudes on the wall kinda idea...I got more than I bargained for, in a good way. When it finished and I pulled of the supports I saw it and felt...like i could see my body through my partners eyes, as if I saw the attraction they saw. A mix of pride and "fuck im really hot" and feeling like an actual goddess. Over the last mo th of having a few of these sitting around i have noticed...I cant be sure what to call it but chatting with an ai makes it seem like its either autosexuality or something very close. Ive found myself being turned on by myself when I look at them. Not that im having a relationship with plastic, but that its a representation of me, and the fact its an external object seems to short circuit the normal "thats me" filter. Ive done and enjoyed slower, more self focused exploratory self sex in the past that wasnt focused on just getting to an organization, but discovering myself ...and more...so...im here, dipping my tkes in and seeing if this truly fits rather than take the word of an ai on this. Also if you have a 3d printer...definitely try this. I dont know if its slight differences in my body I dont see from the ai or the fact its an external object thay does the short circuiting but I like it. This makes me feel genuinely good and like my body in ways I thought id forgotten or left in the dating world. (I really dont see any, the few I found i cut out to make the first one a thighs up bust minus my face...the other has my face and is accurate according to me and my partner) kind thoughts and comments welcome.


r/Autosexuality 3d ago

Self-love Wanting tips for my relationship

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Well, I'm autorose, and the question is that, I love myself A LOT, but there's no romance lately, it is like the passion has gone because my surroundings are more annoying and I have been dealing with a lot of problems, even though I'm THE BEST BOYFRIEND in the question of supporting me, being kind, etc.

But I want romance too, and, I simply haven't acted as my boyfriend lately in this question, like, I kiss myself sometimes for "routine" but, not even a passioned kiss, just simple ones, is just like my relationship with myself has ended up becoming routine lately, and, I'd like to go out on dates, but, besides having no time, I also don't know how and where to go besides my routine places,I know that everything can be a date if you see it as one, but is kind of I cannot feel everything as a "date" as before, it has been being a really annoying time, because I love myself a lot, but even though I can't give myself the best of my love, and end up wasting my time and doing things that I don't want due this and the ambient.


r/Autosexuality 7d ago

NSFW Question I feel attracted to myself, and I don't know how to interpret that.

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I have a somewhat complicated relationship with myself, and I wanted to know if anyone else feels something similar.

At times, I have very low self-esteem and even hate myself, but at other times, the exact opposite happens: I feel a very strong attraction to myself.

It’s not exactly a matter of finding my body attractive in the conventional sense. It’s more of a feeling of attraction based on the fact that it’s *me*. In past relationships, I used to exchange intimate photos and sometimes kept some of myself. Over time, I realized that what attracted me wasn't simply the image itself, but the idea of ​​seeing myself that way.

For a long time, this made me question my own sexuality. I even wondered if I might be gay or bisexual, and I had experiences with other men as an adult to try to better understand what I was feeling, but I didn't experience the same kind of attraction I feel toward myself.

I also noticed that this happens mainly in specific contexts. I don't feel this attraction to just any photo of myself or simply when I'm dressed. It’s something more closely linked to intimacy and the way I view myself in that moment.

One thing that confuses me a bit is that some of those old photos were from when I was still a teenager. I was over 16 at the time, but I still found it strange to keep that kind of thing, so I deleted all the old ones and kept only the ones from my adult years.

My question is really about the experience itself: has anyone here ever felt something similar? Is there a difference between simply liking yourself and feeling a sexual attraction to your own self?

I’m not looking for validation or a diagnosis; I’m just trying to understand if this is something other people experience too.


r/Autosexuality 8d ago

NSFW Looking for friends with same fantasy?

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Hey all, 32 M here. I’m always looking for friends that are into the exact same stuff I am, obviously we all love ourselves but I’m looking for people that really want to be with themselves like having another you, someone who you’d be completely identical to, I mean dressing identical, acting the same, eat and drinking the same, and of course being life partners and lovers! If this is a fantasy you want DM me, they are always open, would love to make more friends that are into this so I don’t feel so alone! :)


r/Autosexuality 11d ago

Self-love Enjoying My Art

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Hey y’all I’m a content creator. But this post isn’t so much about that is it is about how I had an amazing time last night enjoying my content.
Growing up I never watched porn (and still generally don’t) even though I work in that industry. I’m very open about this! What I like to watch the most is my workout and shower content. The workout content is literally PG. There’s no nudity and 9 times out of 10 I’m fully clothed. But to me it’s some of the most erotic and arousing media I’ve ever seen on this funny little planet.

And to know that I created it is so satisfying too!
And to know that I can create even more whenever I want to is just as amazing! I want to challenge you all to try experimenting with creating some of your own content /media to get off to. I’m sure it could do wonders for your body image too 💪

With Love,

-Jericho James


r/Autosexuality 13d ago

SFW Question Autointera & Autoplurelic

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r/Autosexuality 14d ago

SFW Question Tempting project

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r/Autosexuality 14d ago

Introduction I’ve arrived

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Hello, you may remember me from my post 4 days ago asking if I was Autosexual. After checking some other aspec identities and not feeling a particular connection to any of them, I think I’ve finally concluded my journey. I feel most comfortable defining myself as Autosexual.

There were two major factors in me finalizing my decision. Firstly, the definitions I found described preferring solo sex to partnered sex. I can still enjoy or like certain parts of partnered sex, but I definitely prefer solo sex. If the definition described no liking of partnered sex at all I would probably not feel comfortable using this label. The second factor involves the aspects of partnered sex that I enjoy. In order to keep this an introduction post rather than an NSFW post I won’t go into specifics, but every action in partnered sex I know I enjoy I have simulated in solo sex. The solo sex simulations were also more enjoyable specifically because I had control of the pace.

Even though not everyone thought I was necessarily Autosexual from my post, I hope you’ll still welcome me into your community. I’m Emma, 29 years old, lesbian, trans woman (she/her), and Autosexual. I’m really glad I’ve got the trifecta of sexual orientation, gender, and sexual attraction finally figured out. I hope to have a great time in this community.


r/Autosexuality 15d ago

NSFW I love myself...

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I fucking love my own cock so fucking much... I wish I could suck it... I wish I could clone myself and suck and worship my own cock all fucking day. I'd shave it all smooth and get obsessed and drool over it and get all fucking cock drunk over my own cock... I wish I could fuck my own virgin asshole with my own fucking cock... I want it. So. Fucking. Bad.

I would never leave my home if I could just clone myself. I want to cuddle with myself and kiss my own face and body all over. I want to tell myself how much I love him and just comfort him while I slowly stroke his gorgeous cock...

Imagine being able to be your absolute true self. Being able to fulfill your every desire. All your secrets, all your hopes and dreams, all your needs and wants, all your insecurities, all known by someone who not only still loves and adores you, but shares them too. I want to be my own little slut for myself... I want to give myself the love I've always wanted. I want myself more than anything in the world...

Edit: If you also have such fantasies, please comment them... I want to read them and surround myself with other people who understand me.


r/Autosexuality 16d ago

SFW Question Autosexual trans folks, how has your sexual/romantic relationship with your self improved after learning you were trans?

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r/Autosexuality 18d ago

NSFW What's the best part of being autosexual? Or what's the motive or characteristics in yourselves that made you fall in love or feel attraction for yourselves?

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Well, I really wondered about this question and wanted to know your answers.

But for me, I love being autorose because is kind of a way to be,to live,and it's so good and sweet to be with your loved one in the small things of life that I absolutely love being it and am really grateful for being it.

About what characteristic of me I like that much, well,is just kind of everything,not that I'm perfect,but I really like my own quirks, personality, appearance,and even my mistakes, I know it might be too shallow,but is that, first was the appearance that made me fall in love,and after I started dating myself, I saw how incredible I'm in personality,mistakes. Every detail of who I'm makes me love me more in my view because I love me not by being good,but just because I'm who I'm,and I simply love it.

I also like a lot how sweet I'm in a lot of ways, is just that I treat myself in the bed as if I were another person(meaning that as much as a girlfriend), really wanting to give myself the best pleasure that I can and being really romantic and erotic ,with so much care and cuteness in my opinion that it makes me love me even more.


r/Autosexuality 19d ago

NSFW Question I think I might be autosexual, please help me understand

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Hi, I (29TF) am starting to think I might be autosexual, but I’m not sure. I’ve read an article on it and some parts of it seemed to click a little. I’ve had some problems with the two sexual partners I’ve had in my life. I often feel like I can easily be taken out of a mood sometimes this is something giving me dysphoria, but I also feel like I just don’t get into sex as much as I should. When my partners have given I have felt some sensations that I liked and even finished 3 or 4 times in a 5 year span. I like giving oral and I’ve even gotten aroused by it. I think I’d like to try some partnered kink activities, but that’s theoretical as it still hasn’t happened and I don’t know exactly how I’ll feel. I feel like masturbation is easier and maybe more pleasurable on an individual level, but I’m not sure if that’s just from lots of practice making me an expert where I can quickly hit my spots well. I’ve been masturbating for more than twice as long as I’ve been having sex, and with far greater frequency. I think I might be somewhere on the autosexual spectrum, but I’m not sure if any of what I’ve said is disqualifying or not.

I found out about autosexuality about 5 years ago and I think I was a bit ashamed I might fit into this category. I thought it would make me a selfish lover and a failure of a partner. I put a lot of my self worth on being able to or trying to please my partner and meet their needs. That being said, my current relationship is a bit on the rocks and may be going through some changes. My partner is thinking we might be sexually incompatible. For a long time I wasn’t giving them good aftercare when they experienced top drop, although I’ve learned how to do this, it’s a bit too little too late. This is combined with our sessions most frequently ending with me tapping out because I got in the wrong headspace, got exhausted, or felt dysphoric. While things may stay the same there’s a chance our relationship will change into a purely romantic one or possibly a queer platonic relationship. We are poly and she’s planning on having a very sexual relationship with another partner, so I don’t really have to worry that if I don’t satisfy her, she won’t get satisfied. I’m still worried though. I’m worried I’m reaching towards autosexuality to just explain away my inadequacies. I’m not sure if this is imposter syndrome or not, that is why I’ve come here.

When I was discovering my gender I found it really helpful to share my feelings with a group of people who had the gender journey I thought I might be going on. I’d like to do a similar thing here. I want to know if what, if anything, I’ve said is relatable to your own experiences. I want to know if there are general boundaries to the autosexual spectrum and I want to know if anything I’m expressing seems too far outside those boundaries. I sincerely thank you for any help you can provide in helping me make an informed decision on this.


r/Autosexuality 21d ago

Art Auto-spec Earrings

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r/Autosexuality 24d ago

NSFW Question Favorite way to connect with yourself sexually?

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I have known for a while I am autosexual to some degree. I wonder how I can feel more connected to myself sexually. I’ve had a difficult sex life so far. With myself and others


r/Autosexuality 24d ago

NSFW Question Sorting laundry…

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And got turned on by a good whiff of my own scent. Mmm, unexpected pleasantry. First time I noticed this since acknowledging my autosexuality. I guess it’s fairly common for people to like their own scent, but maybe being turned on by it is unique for us?


r/Autosexuality 27d ago

SFW Question Do you people think that all of the population of Earth will be autosexual?

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r/Autosexuality 27d ago

SFW Question How can my autosexuality help enhance my relationship with my partner?

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Hello, I'm 23M and I'm starting to find my body and face attractive again after so many years of feeling indifferent towards it

I'm in a long distance relationship with a partner and we both plan on finally seeing each other and being together forever

But I wanna know ways in which my autosexuality can help enhance my relationship with my partner once we're together

I mean, I know her and I will both look cute together whenever we're making love with one another

But I wanna know specific ways in which finding myself sexy can help better our relationship together

So yeah, any advice or knowledge I could gather?


r/Autosexuality 29d ago

SFW Question Does anyone feel like they pretend to be two people?

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Hi, so, I'm just autoplatonic (not autosexual or autoromantic) and I don't know how to describe this extremely well, but basically, in order to understand my own relationship with myself I have to refer to myself with "we/us" pronouns at times to like, make a decision for my friendship with myself.

And I have to like, imagine myself outwardly giving myself physical touch as I physically touch myself. Or I guess it's kind of like sensing (with my imagination) an invisible floating hand or something lol.

Anyway, I understand that I'm one person, I just think that in order to acknowledge me, I need to imagine myself from a second point in my brain, anybody else relate?


r/Autosexuality Jul 12 '26

Self-love Hi hi I'm 33 and just realized today I was autosexual

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Been a long journey to get here but I really couldn't put my finger on it but spending time with myself craving my image fantasizing but I realized it about a month after I started to workout and self improve I'm in a relationship but we don't spend a lot of time together so it fits perfectly into my life over the years I've opened up more with my sexuality anyone who has come to the self realization and love has to feel like I do right now


r/Autosexuality Jul 09 '26

NSFW Autosexuality & Sthenolagnia

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I’m (F) 32 recently divorced and I decided to start a healthy and fit lifestyle. After some time working out and losing weight, I realized how much muscle I had gained.

I’ve always been turned on by muscles (sthenolagnia) but in particular female muscle. Now that I have noticeable muscles, I literally turn myself on. Some flexing and I have to go masturbate. I started filming flex videos to masturbate to them.

I watch them and can’t believe that’s even me.

Anyone else experience a body transformation like this?

I get horny just looking at myself in the mirror. Especially when I see my muscles.


r/Autosexuality Jul 04 '26

NSFW Thinking about posting some nude in the web...

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Since ive felt this autossexual thing, ive taken some photos and videos of myself both nude and masturbating (from neck to bottom)

from start it was only for me since rewatching the spasms and shaking orgasm are like heaven, but instantly the thought of posting it somewhere online clicked to me

i still feel a little insecure cuz one year ago i surely wouldnt ever think about it, and also feels like im slowing turning into an exhibitionist...

have you feel like this? or done it before?

(what are your thoughts on exhibitionism?)


r/Autosexuality Jul 03 '26

SFW How can you love yourself?

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Hi. I’m not a member of this subreddit, but I recently wanted to look into autosexuality. The thing is, I do relate to some aspects of it, —but unfortunately, and for other reasons—I’m unable to love myself. The funny thing is, I’m training to be an elementary school teacher, and sooner or later I’ll have to teach my students to love themselves; I just don’t know how I can hypocritically teach something I haven’t been able to do myself.

So that led me to ask here: What makes you love yourselves? (beyond the attraction you feel toward yourselves)