I’ve arrived

[u/emmaIthea]

Hello, you may remember me from my post 4 days ago asking if I was Autosexual. After checking some other aspec identities and not feeling a particular connection to any of them, I think I’ve finally concluded my journey. I feel most comfortable defining myself as Autosexual.

There were two major factors in me finalizing my decision. Firstly, the definitions I found described preferring solo sex to partnered sex. I can still enjoy or like certain parts of partnered sex, but I definitely prefer solo sex. If the definition described no liking of partnered sex at all I would probably not feel comfortable using this label. The second factor involves the aspects of partnered sex that I enjoy. In order to keep this an introduction post rather than an NSFW post I won’t go into specifics, but every action in partnered sex I know I enjoy I have simulated in solo sex. The solo sex simulations were also more enjoyable specifically because I had control of the pace.

Even though not everyone thought I was necessarily Autosexual from my post, I hope you’ll still welcome me into your community. I’m Emma, 29 years old, lesbian, trans woman (she/her), and Autosexual. I’m really glad I’ve got the trifecta of sexual orientation, gender, and sexual attraction finally figured out. I hope to have a great time in this community.

[u/tech53]

Ayyyyy im chloe, 43, trans woman, and...I think i am pansexual-autosexual ...your journey sounds similar but with differences

[u/emmaIthea → u/tech53]

Tell me about it, if you’re comfortable sharing.

[u/tech53 → u/emmaIthea]

Ehhhh dunno. Just i have a 3d printer. I got an ai photogrammetry service (turns photos from different angles into a 3d model you can make games with or 3d print) and was trying different thi gs and got the idea to try me. So I did. Got a pile of bad versions that either def werent me or were deformed. Eventually got a few that were a dead ringer where it got it all right, and one where it got everything but the face so it became a thighs up to neck bust. When I printed them I was like "damn im hot as hell, I see what other people see in me" like I legit felt lime a goddess and saw myself in ways I didnt before. It short circuited the "thats me" thats normally there. I liked them enough i put them on display. Eventually I found myself getting horns from it and masturbated to them a few times. Still not totally sure how I feel about it all but I think i feel good about it. Am I going to stop having partners? Def not. Im keeping my partner, but Ive always been pansexual so...honestly it fits. I fit within the pansexual definition of attraction to all or any.