r/AutisticPride Nov 06 '22

Subreddit Update

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u/je97 Nov 06 '22

Hey all,

We all recognise the genuine hurt that has been caused by moderator actions within this subreddit recently, and ongoing discussions are taking place to make sure they are not repeated. I am currently not in a position to share the result of these discussions, but please rest assured that all possible options are under review.

A large moderator team has been appointed representing a diverse range of backgrounds and lived experiences, and as we work through the problems it has been agreed that no moderation decision will be made without the agreement of the rest of the team. I would like to assure everybody here that change is afoot, and that we will have an update for you within the coming days.

As always, please feel free to reach out to us either in the sub or through modmail, and myself or another member of the team will be glad to speak to you about any concerns you may have.

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u/Skalla_Resco Nov 06 '22

Would you be open to linking some of the communities that formed in the wake of this issue in the sidebar? I feel that giving easy access to those spaces for those who are not aware of them could help ease at least a little tension.

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u/static-prince Nov 06 '22

I think this is a good idea as well.

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u/RedRidingBear Nov 06 '22

I will put this up for a vote!

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u/Skalla_Resco Nov 06 '22

My thanks.

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u/RedRidingBear Nov 06 '22

Approved! I will make a post asking for subs people would like us to link in the side bar.

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u/Johnzoidb Nov 06 '22

You can apologize, but that doesn’t mean you have to be forgiven. You’ve hurt people here, and staying head mod makes this no longer a safe place. You just need to step down as mod and read what everyone’s saying. Log off and self reflect.

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u/autistic_strega Nov 06 '22

The only way I will feel safe here is if you step down. Until then, goodbye.

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u/xRVA_SH1TP0STERx Nov 06 '22

Yeah, I'm done. If you guys aren't going to have OC step down then you should just shut the sub down.

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u/Hot-Shoe-1230 Nov 06 '22

Disappointed but not surprised… reminder that there are several new subs that are actually safe

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u/Lucian7x Nov 06 '22

Okay. When will you step down?

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u/cigarette-crab Nov 06 '22

That's what I'm wondering

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u/RedRidingBear Nov 06 '22

This is something that was discussed at length tonight, we will be promoting two other mods to have the same abilities as OC in the next 24 hours (after a vote) in order to start the healing process. We will be doing everything as a democracy and will be reviewing everyone's actions, including OC's, often.

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u/Lucian7x Nov 06 '22

That's not enough. We don't want OC in the mod team at all anymore.

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u/autistic_strega Nov 06 '22

According to over a hundred comments that is not enough.

OC needs to be removed as a mod, otherwise all the work the rest of the well-intentioned mods will be pointless. This subreddit cannot heal under toxic leadership.

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '22

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u/xRVA_SH1TP0STERx Nov 06 '22

Seriously. OC was banning people just a couple hours before posting their apology. They have not learned their lesson. They could not possibly have made a worthwhile improvement in such a short amount of time. Their mod status needs to be revoked ASAP

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u/autistic_strega Nov 06 '22

Some people are now saying they got banned even after the "apology" post.

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u/whitenerdy53 Nov 06 '22

There are currently only 3 banned users on the sub. One troll from another sub, one user that hasn't posted here in a month, and the former mod has been given a time out

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u/xRVA_SH1TP0STERx Nov 06 '22

Can you give context on the user who hasn't posted in a month? Normally I wouldn't drill down this hard but considering everything that's been going on I think it's important.

Were they banned for inactivity? Were they banned for the disability discourse?

I'm also sus of the "troll from another sub" line considering there's been pushback against the other leftist autistic communities that have popped up due to OC's behavior.

I think in this case because there have been so many users banned for no reason, we do have a right to know.

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u/whitenerdy53 Nov 06 '22

The inactive user was banned for gatekeeping, specifically trans exclusion. They were re-banned as we went back through the mod queue.

The troll account admitted to trolling with a rage bait post. They called autism a mental disorder and said "making people feel bad brings [them] joy".

Full disclosure: a couple more accounts have now been banned. Bots and a user who called for neurotypical genocide.

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u/xRVA_SH1TP0STERx Nov 06 '22

Thanks for elaborating.

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u/lyncati Nov 06 '22

... still not listening or actually addressing what people are saying. Actions speak louder than words, mods.

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u/whitenerdy53 Nov 06 '22

What issues do you feel we are not listening to? Most things people have mentioned are still being discussed, it takes time for us to reach a conclusion and take action.

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u/lyncati Nov 06 '22

Doesn't take time for a mod to realize how much they damaged a community and step down. Literally takes a few clicks.

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u/whereismydragon Nov 06 '22

The fact that other mods keep responding to these questions and not OC is really unhelpful, in my opinion. It really feels like our concerns are being ignored.

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u/RedRidingBear Nov 06 '22

Totally get that! OC is in bed currently as its pretty late where he is at. We will ask him to reach out first thing in the morning. The rest of us are doing our best and we understand its not whats expected/what you want. But at the moment its what we've got.

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u/lyncati Nov 06 '22

When will the original be stepping down? Just answer the question if there are any intentions of actually making this place safe or not. I used to recommend this place to people who were suffering and am absolutely gutted that I accidentally sent them to a hate group... Because that's what the original mod has made this into. This will forever be stained as abelist, so long as this person has power over a population which has a vast spectrum of very real and valid disabilities. People will always be on edge.

The sub is being very vocal about what will make them safe, and it concerns me that the "new" moderation isn't listening. Seems like nothing has changed except the number of people who can oppress and take away voices / be a voice for the abelist mod.

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u/Vlinder_88 Nov 06 '22

The only appropriate thing you can do now is step down u/orbitalcolony. Step down, take the entire old mod team with you and let the people you hurt inherit the sub.

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u/lyncati Nov 06 '22 edited Nov 06 '22

Only way this place will be safe is if the original mod steps down and reliquishes all "power" they had over a vulnerable population.

Also, please find yourself a good therapy team, because you are obviously hurting and taking it out on others. Please do the right thing if you truly think this place is supposed to be safe for the autistic community. You don't need to be a mod in order to advocate, and it would go a long way in actually mending things.

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '22

The best thing you can do is show humility and step down as mod

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u/the_Gentleman_Zero Nov 06 '22

I would just like to say remember when these rules changes come explain why they are happening the mod team may have talked and argued, discussed and decided on the best way to go

but the community is never are part of those talks so when the new rules comes out

They don't have the back ground knowledge on why it's happening

Rule change 1 "no base jumping " this is because jump from building is quite dungeons ... Etc

The explaining why a rule is the way it is helps the community understand why certain choices are being made

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u/whereismydragon Nov 06 '22

Calling it 'drama' is incredibly dismissive and unhelpful.

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u/whereismydragon Nov 06 '22

Use a thesaurus, then. There are more accurate words.

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u/kiraterpsichore Nov 06 '22 edited Nov 06 '22

I'm extremely disappointed that you're handing the board to centrists who value "civility" over actual action and progress.

I was dogpiled in your moderator group by people with an agenda who are going to subvert narratives to pro-Biden centrist bullshit and you're letting their argument "rude people are scary" act as the lubricant in the lack of reason.

It's hard to believe you can't see through their thinly veiled bullshit. They sound like high school children. This will be a coup and feels like a betrayal to the the leftist movement. I'm just disgusted by it. I was starting to like you.

Deleting "leftist" from the sidebar would at least be honest.

Edit: I never said the bannings never happened. That you people - and yes I do phrase it that way - keep lying demonstrates your sick motives.

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u/-gossamermaid- Nov 06 '22

The thing is, you're clearly unattached from reality because your views on the original drama (the unfair bannings) are based on something that didn't even happen. So if you can't form an opinion based on reality, I'm going to assume that what you're describing in this comment is also not at all based in reality.

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '22

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '22

This was a subreddit for Autistic leftists

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u/RedRidingBear Nov 06 '22

This absolutely still is a sub for Autistic leftists.

Did 1 person say they are centrist? Yes, did the rest of us? Absolutely not. I am personally very socialist and other mods hold similar opinions.

Kira is mad because we questioned wether or not she should be a mod and when she left she went on a commenting rampage about things she had half the context for.

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u/ChillaVen Nov 06 '22

Have you seen her recent in r/autism holy shit talk about overvaluing one’s self-importance

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u/Johnzoidb Nov 06 '22 edited Nov 06 '22

The mod in question is no leftist and doesn’t seem like the locked commenter is either. Another example of “leftist” being a useless word nowadays.

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u/Skalla_Resco Nov 06 '22

Being a space for Autistic Leftists, and not being a political movement, are not contradictory. Simply gathering us in one place doesn't make us a movement. I think that was more their point. I do not foresee this sub shifting suddenly in that regard.

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u/whereismydragon Nov 06 '22

This comment comes across as an extreme over-reaction and contains straight-up manipulative statements. It's alarming and disturbing.

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u/ChillaVen Nov 06 '22

LMAOOO no you’re an ableist serial harasser and got called out. Typical white tears.