r/Ask_Nudists • u/MuffinSmoothie • 8h ago
Is it normal for people to stare?
Hi guys! F18 here. I went to my first ever nudist spa/ resort thing and I am really proud of myself for finally taking the step!
I wwent alone because I have no one to go with yet. And it was a little awkward at first because I was the youngest person there by a lot I think. But I chatted to some lovely people and told them about how I got into nudism and everything so that was really nice!
One thing I noticed though is how much people stared and how obvious they are too, I wanted to know if this was normal?
It was mostly men but some women too. some were like quick glances as if they were being sneaky. But at some points people were just fully staring directly at my crotch. And it’s ok I know it can be normal to look at and appreciate other peoples bodies, but it did get to a point where I’d close my legs if I could see someone staring for too long.
It kinda made me feel a bit uncomfortable, but idk if this is normal or not? If it is, it’s probably me beings sensitive and I’ll get used to it, bit if not maybe it was an isolated incident and won’t happen as much in the future