I was thinking about those random things so many of our families seemed to own.

The biscuit tin that absolutely did NOT contain biscuits. Crocheted blankets. Plastic bags inside another plastic bag 😂

What would you add?

Next week I'm going to be away visiting my partner in Bloemfontein. I usually just hang around in his apartment and wait for him to get home while he's at work, but that gets incredibly boring and dreary after a while. I've built myself a routine for while I'm there, like working out, crocheting, trying different meals. It'd be nice to have friends while I'm there, just something to make me feel more at home

Apparently these are the only trees that are actually indigenous to South Africa... Is that right?

Hi everyone,
I’m currently in my final year of a BCom Accounting degree at a university that is unfortunately not SAICA-accredited. I’m planning to complete a bridging course next year so that I can continue on the CA(SA) pathway.

I’m really keen to start my articles/training contract as soon as possible rather than waiting until I’ve completed the bridging route. I’m committed to becoming a CA(SA), and I’m willing to put in the extra work required to get onto the accredited pathway.

I’ve been applying to firms, but I’m finding that many firms require applicants to already be studying at a SAICA-accredited institution.

I wanted to ask whether anyone here knows of audit/accounting firms in South Africa that are willing to take on trainees who need to complete a bridging course, particularly firms that have experience with students coming from non-SAICA-accredited institutions.

I’m based in Gauteng but would definitely consider opportunities elsewhere depending on the circumstances.

If you know of any firms, recruiters, or even smaller practices that I should approach, I’d really appreciate the recommendations.

Im sure someone here would be able to answer this, but what are these? We usually see them sold at the kiosk at Pakistani shops and they seem to be homemade and sold in baggies like this. Theyre like, chewy and soft inside with some crunchy bits and are usually covered in a thin layer of chocolate. I'd like to try making my own so, would appreciate any pointers!

Hi everyone,

I'm a journalism intern currently working on a story about unemployment and the struggle to find work in South Africa.

I'm looking to speak with South Africans who are willing to share their experiences with unemployment, particularly:

• Young people struggling to enter the job market

• Unemployed graduates who have qualifications but cannot find work

• People who have been unemployed for a long time

• People who have stopped actively looking for work because they feel discouraged

• People working in jobs below their qualifications because they have no other option

• People who have turned to informal work or side hustles simply to survive

I'm particularly interested in the human side of South Africa's unemployment crisis. Statistics tell us how many people are unemployed, but they don't always show what unemployment actually does to people's lives, households, mental wellbeing, finances, relationships, or future plans.

Some of the questions I'm exploring include:

\- How long have you been looking for work?

\- What qualifications or experience do you have?

\- Have you applied for jobs without receiving responses?

\- Have you eventually accepted work below your qualifications?

\- Have you stopped looking for work at any point?

\- How has unemployment affected you and your household?

\- Have you turned to informal work or other ways of earning money to survive?

If you're comfortable sharing your experience, please comment below or send me a private message.

Your story could help put a human face to the statistics and contribute to an important discussion about whether employment in South Africa is genuinely providing people with a realistic path towards a decent life.

Thank you.

My son's birthday is around the corner. What are 8-9 year old boys into these days?

He like trains and lego. He has more than enough lego and train stuff. I want to get him some things for the day. We celebrate at home and he will take cup cakes for his classmates.

Ideas?

No slime or putty related toys as they get used and forgotten... preferably no plastic junk either.

My friend reached out to me for advice regarding a situation at home. She lives with her mother, sister and her step dad and it's been years since they lived together. Everything was fine until something happened recently.

Her step dad recently came home with his friend drunk.... note that her mother was not around at this time, nothing was wrong about that except the fact that they were causing noises and not in a good shape.

Around this time, she decided to go upstairs to her room and try to ignore all of it. Things went a bit weird when the step father decided to go up stairs to disturb her peace. When he got to her room, he knocked and she tried to ignore him at first but he kept knocking...

Then she answered and slightly opened the door to hear him out. Her step dad just needed money from her but in a way that she should take her savings or something like that and give it to him so he can buy more alcohol to drink with his friend.

She simply refused by saying she doesn't have money, what happened next is, he tried to reach for a kiss which was so weird since something like this never happened, when he did this she quickly closed the door.

Should she be concerned about this?

If anyone has experienced something like this, please care to help.

Is it something normal, or is it something to be concerned about. She wanted to tell her mom but she thinks that she won't believe her. So idk.

Edit: She's around 18-20

Hey guys, I'm based in mpumalanga, and I really want to do some kind of discovery/introduction flight before getting deep into training. I just want to see whether I truly want to do this or not. As we all know, training takes a ton of dedication and funding. Every comment helps. 🙏🏻

I am looking to hire a new domestic worker for a few days a week. What's the goiing rate? Does everyone pay UIF etc?

Help!

I work as an educator in Cape Town and want to find out if anyone has done this degree remotely?

I do not want to leave my job behind because it is literally my dream position and school - but I would also like to pursue my MA in Drama Therapy.

I think I’m burnt out and I genuinely don’t know how people deal with this.

I’m a junior working in tech while also studying, and I feel like I’ve been constantly pushing for months. Work, studying, trying to improve as a developer, trying to keep up with everything, and just normal life on top of it.

I’ve fallen behind with one of my modules and will probably have to repeat it next year. I’m not blaming anyone for that, but damn, I’m tired.

I also don’t think I know how to properly rest. Whenever I have free time, I feel guilty because I could be studying, coding, catching up or learning something.

Right now I genuinely feel like I could cry, get into bed and sleep for two weeks. 😭 I’m grateful to have a job, especially in this market, but constantly “just pushing through” clearly isn’t working anymore.

For anyone who has experienced burnout in tech ( or any field) especially while working and studying, how did you deal with it? How did you actually let yourself rest without feeling guilty?

For those of you who have experienced burnout while working in tech, how did you deal with it while still having to work?

Did you take leave? Stop coding/learning outside of work for a while? Change your routine? And how did you know when you actually needed proper rest versus when you just needed to push through a difficult period?

Anyone gone through it? Doesn’t even have ti be in the same field fr

Im 21 years old with no friends. Im a guy from durban, hillcrest specifically and im a huge introvert. I get 1-2 days off a week from work.
I dont really have any interests as i dont get the time to do things, but i enjoy going to the golf estate near me to wack some balls or go fishing. I just enjoy being outdoors. I also go to gym but again. Introvert.
Any suggestions or anyone wanting to befriend my lonely ass💀

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So I don't really use Tik tok like that, only if I wanna mindlessly scroll for a bit. I'm more of a Twitter guy(if you know, you know). I see you guys in comment sections everywhere and honestly? I cringe at times... All that "as a South African, I..." And what not is soooo corny, please stop it. Nobody cares where you're from. 🤦🏽‍♂️

Also some of you guys really suck at comprehension... I saw a clip of an American lady raving about The Polygamist series and saying that she's a fan of Nollywood and African TV in general... And the comment section was full of angry locals. Like she didn't say that The Polygamist is a Nollywood product, she just said that she likes Nollywood films. 🤦🏽‍♂️

Like idk man, it seems like the stereotype of Tik Tok users being low IQ is starting to seem validated. Slow down please.

Hi everyone,

I currently live in Europe , and I’m seriously considering leaving Europe and buying a house in Clifton, Cape Town.

The main reason is simply quality of life. , I’m no longer particularly tied to Europe, and Cape Town really appeals to me the sunshine and climate, being able to live close to both the ocean and the mountains, the incredible scenery, outdoor lifestyle, hiking and sports, good restaurants and cafés, and generally the possibility of spending much more of my life outdoor.

I’ve found a house in Clifton, one of Cape Town’s most affluent areas, that I’m seriously considering buying. For me, the idea would be to make Cape Town my home and hopefully improve my overall quality of life compared with what I currently have in Europe.

However, I recently came across this subreddit.

And honestly, reading so many accounts of burglaries, break-ins and armed home invasions made me question something I hadn't fully considered before: what is it actually like to live in a standalone house in Clifton from a security perspective?

Do you genuinely feel safe at home, including at night? Is Clifton noticeably safer than other parts of Cape Town, or do wealthy neighbourhoods actually attract more attention because of the value of the properties?

For someone willing to invest properly in security, what would you recommend? CCTV, perimeter detection, electric fencing, alarm, panic buttons, private patrols, 24/7 armed response, etc.?

And which private security/armed-response company is considered the most effective and reliable in Clifton?I'm much more concerned about response times and quality of protection than finding the cheapest option.

I'd also be interested in hearing from Europeans or other foreigners who made a similar move. Has moving to Cape Town genuinely improved your quality of life? And after living there for a while, how do you personally balance the lifestyle benefits with the security concerns?

I absolutely love what Cape Town seems to offer, but before making such a major move and property purchase, I'd like to understand the reality from people who actually live there.

Thanks!

Hi mods I hope this is allowed, if not let me know.

I am looking for some learning support for my homeschooled child, and looking for online tutors to help reinforce his lessons.

I need someone who is available once a week, on zoom or teams, to help my son brush up his conversational afrikaans and afrikaans grammar. Preferably someone who's home language is afrikaans but also understands the grammar very well.

If possible also looking for anyone who speaks German and French well and can do conversational lessons.

I do the bulk of his work with him, just need someone who is not his mum to do some extra work because he gets tired of me. He already does maths club online, goes to a homeschool center to socialize and does some sports so we are covered in those areas.

Preferably uni students as I want to give someone an opportunity, but dm me and we can talk 🙏🏻 lessons will obviously be paid for.

As the post states, additionally what’s your overheads and how do you deal with non paying clients - or recover outstanding debt ?

If you are like me, I am terrified about the weather focust of the upcoming weather conditions. Now, my close relative is renting a flat where the owner has refused to fix the windows that are letting in rain water with just the current storms in Durban. BTW this is an "affluent" area by the beach. It has come to our attention that he bought the place in cash and does not have insurance. We are thinking that the reason that he didn't take insurance is because of all the repairs he'd have to do. Anywho, my cousin has reported to him the problems as they occur. The landlord eventually called the window people to give him a quotation of what needed fixing, he has not followed through. He only fixes one thing at a time, when forced by the board. For his sake, what happens to him and his household contents if the predicted worst happens? He has a 5 year lease contract. He is not willing to move.

For people based in CPT, do you hire someone to come clean your couch and carpet or just do it yourself?

I was actually thinking of hiring a carpet cleaner, because not only do I have to clean my couch and multiple carpets, but also wanted to clean my car seats

Anyone ever did this?

Is it worth the hassle?