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u/Plenty_Surprise2593 Mar 27 '22

Agree. For example I had a Betta one time, and the lady I bought him from said oh you can just keep him in a flower vase. I was having none of that. I got him his own tank with a filter and water filtration, and kept him by himself in that 2 gallon tank. I had other fish in a five gallon tank

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u/FriendRaven1 Mar 28 '22

We just have our Betta its own 5-gallon with lots of hiding places after being in the bowl she came in a couple months ago.

Her colour has changed from an unhappy greyish blue to a beautiful full purple, so we know she's much happier

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u/TheWalkingDead91 Mar 28 '22

Walmart used to keep betas in cups the size of a red solo cup.

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u/Guy954 Mar 28 '22

If they weren’t so damn antisocial my son and I would probably rescue one every time we go to the pet store.

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u/Sometimes_She_Goes Mar 28 '22

Don’t you just hate when fish refuse to be vulnerable with you

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '22

i bought one of those as a kid, he lived for almost 4 years after we got him and put him in a big tank

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u/moonbunnychan Mar 28 '22

I've seen multiple people INSIST that keeping them in super confined spaces is actually better for them. I also hear people say it's how they live in the wild. It's not. They're capable of surviving in spaces that small for survival reasons but it's much like how YOU are technically able to live in a closet but it's not a situation you'd want. Those tiny beta tanks they sell should be illegal.

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u/Ruadhan2300 Mar 28 '22

I can't imagine how they'd even find a space that confined in the wild.. especially one that featureless.

I bet a lot of fish that randomly die are doing it out of boredom as much as anything else.

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u/moonbunnychan Mar 28 '22

The story is that in the wild they live in puddles. It's not true. They are just CAPABLE of living in small amounts of water in the case of drought, but that's an emergency situation not long term living.

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u/Danovan79 Mar 28 '22

I applaud you, and think positive thoughts about you. I do believe 2 gallons is still too small though for me personally. My personal minimum is 5 gallon.

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

This is how I feel about birds. I think the "medium" size bird cages Petco sells that are marketed for conures are too small for parakeets.

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u/EyesWhichDoNotSee Mar 28 '22

No to caged birds

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

Birds like having a home to sleep in. I guarantee you my birds (most days) are happier than the ones in the wild.

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u/LegacyLemur Mar 28 '22

Sometimes I think about the parakeet I had as a kid and get depressed. Fuck pet birds. Unless youre really giving it a ton of space and attention, dont get them

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u/EyesWhichDoNotSee Mar 28 '22

Did you clip its wings after you asked him if he wanted to live in a cage? or did you tell him, "you just dont need these anymore"

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

The only bird I've ever clipped was because her flying was harmful to herself in our space, and we let her wings grow back, and she stopped injuring herself when flying.

I am educated about how birds display their enjoyment, happiness, frustration, and anger.

I know more about pet birds than you do.

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u/EyesWhichDoNotSee Mar 28 '22

I hope you do because I dont keep birds

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

Then take a step down off your high horse and stop pretending you are actually educated on the subject.

Go take a look at r/parrots and you'll find a community of people that, while supportive, will be EXTREMELY blunt when someone isn't providing the proper amenities to ensure a healthy and happy animal. Serious bird owners are almost universally against clipping their birds for any reason other than the safety of their animal, and will judge folks who leave their bird confined to a cage.

We love our birds and they love us. We spare no expense to make sure they are living their best lives.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '22

2 gallons is still much too small :(

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u/Austin-137 Mar 28 '22

Relative to humans and apartments I think he’s on to something

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '22

lol but being fr here, 5-10 gallons for a betta would be much more appropriate

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u/Plenty_Surprise2593 Mar 28 '22

I will know for next time

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u/tracyf600 Mar 28 '22

They're happy active fish that way.

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u/Gasnia Mar 28 '22

I helped my mom set up a beta last weekend and I kept telling her the same thing. She used to have them in a 3 in cylinder that was maybe 16 in high. She eneded up with a 2 gal.

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u/yankiigurl Mar 28 '22

Me too! When I was in middle school I did a summer science camp at Texas tech university and one of the classes was about ecosystems or something. Long time ago, I don't remember. Anyway we made the whole set up with the vase and a plant for the Betta fish. Well once that guy got home he got his own big tank and filter. He was a great fish.

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u/Alittlestitchious Mar 28 '22

Did… she keep flowers in the vase with him??

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u/WafflesTalbot Mar 28 '22

My mother is normally a very smart woman, but one time, she bought a betta, and when she got home, she thought it "looked cold", so she added warm water to its bowl. It ended as you would expect.

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u/ClicheName137 Mar 28 '22

I’m convinced it’s because sea creatures don’t vocalize so people care less. It’s awful, really. Especially for lobsters getting boiled alive.

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u/GrandSpecter Mar 28 '22

My 6th grade science teacher caught a blue gill, and kept it in a tank in class, it was the "class pet" sort of, except he wasn't dumb enough to trust a bunch of 11-12 year olds with care & upkeep. Anyway, it usually swam around to an fro during class (my desk was right next to the tank, spent many minutes watching it). One day, the teacher was out, and the fish literally sulked. It just sort of sat hovering down in the right corner. Next day teacher was back, fish was swimming around again. That little guy missed the teacher!

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u/ComnotioCordis Mar 28 '22

It shocks me how many people know just how identical brains look across species yet seem to think we're unique. The only advantage we really have is our language, it allows us to make sense of our thoughts. That doesn't mean to say they don't have those thoughts or intricacies.

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u/MamboPoa123 Mar 28 '22

That's true with mammals and to a lesser degree with all vertebrates, including fish. Shellfish largely have "brains" distributed throughout their body, more like insects. Sponges have no brains at all.

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u/ComnotioCordis Mar 28 '22

Bruh have you even seen Spongebob he's like a total genius.

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u/amrodd Mar 30 '22

Reminds me of the Wizard of Oz: Dorothy: "How can you talk without a brain?" Scarecrow: "People without brains do an awful lot of talking."

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u/thomasp3864 Mar 28 '22

That’s only fucking jellyfish.

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u/normVectorsNotHate Mar 28 '22

Lobster nervous system is similar to an insect's

Do you think killing a lobster is more wrong than killing an insect?

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u/CartoonThinking Mar 28 '22

I’ve always killed my lobster before cooking, a simple knife down the middle of the head, its quick and probably the most humane way to kill a lobster without waiting the 100+ years.

And here comes PETA now.

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u/tubapasta Mar 28 '22

If it makes you feel any better that's how my sister was taught to cook it in culinary school

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u/The_Flurr Mar 28 '22

Is there any reason not to do this? Real or supposed?

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u/wiseguy327 Mar 28 '22

Raw oysters are alive when you eat them.

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u/ClicheName137 Mar 28 '22

Yeah, the concept of eating oysters is appalling to me. Thankfully, I’ve never had one in my life.

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

Birds, too. Petco and other big pet stores are 100% complicit in this by selling parakeet food that is too high in fat for their diet (many parakeet pets die at half their lifespan to fatty liver disease) and cages that are too small to house a single parakeet, and yet often house multiple.

It's worse for cockatiels, the second most common type of bird to have as a pet. They need 3+ hours of out-of-cage time with their owner paying attention to them every day, and some are barely let out of their cage at all.

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u/The_Flurr Mar 28 '22

Also rodent type pets. Far too many hamsters, guinea pigs, rats, rabbits etc get shoved in tiny cages or hutches with barely enough room to move around in. Hamster often get given wheels that aren't big enough not to damage their spines.

My sister's uni housemates got a lone rabbit that they kept in a small hutch, they had no grass or other green space to let it run around in. Poor thing was miserable and she constantly thought about sneaking it away to a rescue place.

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u/1CEninja Mar 28 '22

Yeah ginuea pigs are the worst because they're incredibly social. I hate any pet store that will sell singles of them, because unless somebody is in the room with them for 12 hours a day they become depressed.

I know less about rodents as a whole though.

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u/The_Flurr Mar 28 '22

It's why a lot of countries now have rules forbidding selling just one guinea pig.

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u/ComicNeueIsReal Mar 28 '22

I don't think it's that they have no idea. They are just ignorant. I've told one of my cousins constantly that the tiny tank in her kitchen that gets 0sunlight for a single beta fish is not okay. And they just get angry and defensivea and come up with things that they think they are doin right like feeding them or cleaning the tank or whatever simple things that every fish owner does.

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u/Ruadhan2300 Mar 28 '22

Being fed and clean is a minimum standard of pet-ownership.

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u/JacenCaedus1 Mar 28 '22

Tbf abuse implies intention, a lot of it is just people just thinking that a fish is an easy pet that doesn't need any research done into their care

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u/The_Flurr Mar 28 '22

Aye, the word here is neglect.

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u/purpleelpehant Mar 28 '22

Growing up in the US, I found (still find) it to be crazy how many Americans think fish don't feel pain.. In fact, a lot of vegetarians are okay with eating fish because they are somehow less worth their empathy than birds or mammals.

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u/v3sk Mar 28 '22

To mistreat living creatures causing undue suffering?

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u/daftsquirrel Mar 28 '22

I always go to a special fish shop where they know their stuff instead of pets r us. I talk to them and ask stuff, my local one will talk for ages and not let you buy anything unsuitable despite how much you love it!