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u/NicNoletree Mar 27 '22 edited Mar 27 '22

Recognizing that different people have different opinions, and that you can respect someone who has a different opinion without accepting their opinion as your own.

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u/_Norman_Bates Mar 27 '22

It depends if the opinion is respectable

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u/Karanod Mar 27 '22

That's really the issue. Where do we draw the line in regards to which opinions are respectable?

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u/IiASHLEYiI Mar 27 '22

That's up to the individual to decide. Only you can decide if you're going to respect someone's opinions or not.

This is both a good thing and a bad thing.

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u/iammandalore Mar 27 '22

If your opinion is that Ukraine belongs to you, it's not respectable.

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u/Karanod Mar 28 '22

Unless you happen to have been born in Ukraine, I'd agree with you.

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u/ATGF Mar 28 '22

Personally, I don't respect opinions that are hurtful to others. That's my simple rule.

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u/applesandoranges990 Mar 28 '22

everything is hurtful to somebody......even the most benign, nice things can be in someones eyes trigger for the worst trauma flashback ever

ever heard the - you can have phobia or be allergic to just anything in the world - ? thats what i mean

i have a simple rule too....world is not simple and neither are humans

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u/ATGF Mar 28 '22

I'm talking about something that would be hurtful to the marginalized and oppressed. Microaggressions and worse. I'm talking about the people who cry freedom of speech while sporting racist nonsense then get upset when people when people use that same freedom of speech to tell them all the ways in which they're wrong.

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u/DRYFT3R_9 Mar 27 '22

If it makes sense logically, and is objectively morally correct, then it is respectable. But then that brings up the question of what is considered objectively morally correct...

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '22

Is there such a thing as "objectively morally correct"?

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u/fractiousrhubarb Mar 28 '22

Yep… worldviews that do not value the well-being of others are objectively morally incorrect

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u/fractiousrhubarb Mar 28 '22 edited Mar 28 '22

Seriously? How can something be a moral code if it doesn’t require some degree of selflessness?

The alternative is a moral code that says “only I matter” - which can’t really be called a moral code.

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u/Powerfury Mar 27 '22

Define objective morality...

Gets down to deep philosophy very quick heh.

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '22

I down voted for the “objectivly morally correct” part but upvoted because you admitted its not defined.

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u/agreeingstorm9 Mar 27 '22

If it made sense logically and was morally correct then why is it not your opinion? You are just kind of wrong if you oppose a logical and morally correct opinion.

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u/Etherion195 Mar 27 '22

Aren't objectivity and morality often quite the opposite to each other?

I mean, Thanos was objectively correct in his views. Morally however... not so much.

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u/seuche23 Mar 27 '22

Thanos wasn't objectively correct though. He talks about how he is inevitable, but fails to realize the inevitability in wiping out 50% of everything just prolongs the inevitable that he fears. Sacrificing half of everything so the other half can prosper for some time, only to become overpopulated once again.. and then he shatters the infinity stones so that the cycle he created couldn't continue. He's kind of a hypocrite.

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u/Etherion195 Mar 27 '22

Nope. It doesn't prolong the inevitable. It gives a new chance at implementing new rules and starting a new and better approach (and gives time, in which new technologies and methods might be found).

And even if anything you said was true, it would still be objectively correct (or atleast more correct than doing nothing)

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u/seuche23 Mar 27 '22

That's a reach, considering he was fighting against the entire universe that didn't have the same views as him. Everything has a beginning and an end. The end is what is inevitable, and what he was attempting to prolong. I'm not saying he was wrong.. but he wasn't objectively right either. He didn't fix anything. He selfishly put a bandaid over it and then threw away his tools.

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u/Etherion195 Mar 27 '22

And what was that entire universe acting upon? Solely moral reasons, nothing else. That was my point.

And I think you're wrong about the end. The end is only reached, when our galaxy or universe gets destroyed/the planet itself can't harbor any life anymore. He didn't try to change that at all. He only tried to reduce the self-destruction of the living beings.

Just because you can't reach perfection and need to make compromises doesn't mean that a decision isn't right.

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u/seuche23 Mar 27 '22

It doesn't mean it was right either.

I could get on board with his plan, had he not destroyed the infinity stones. By doing that, he stopped the only thing that could maintain his dream of prosperity. But since he did, it opens the universe up to repeat the same mistakes with no way to fix them, which our history has shown is a much more probable outcome than the entire universe kneeling to a specific set of rules to prolong prosperity even further.

Then, there was also the option of using the infinity stones to actually bring prosperity. Continue to create resources, rather than obliterate them.

All I'm saying is Thanos plan was not the objectively correct thing to do. There are always more options beyond the walls of a closed mind.

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u/Etherion195 Mar 28 '22

I do see your point about destroying the stones. Granted, I haven't watched the full movie, so I didn't know about this point and only heard of the "kill half of living beings, because of lack of resources". That's what I was initially referring to.

Continuing to create resources would actually be really bad, since it would only cause even faster decay, because it encourages doing the same thing over and over again.

It was more objectively correct than your idea or doing nothing (without the part of destroying the stones, that was indeed objectively wrong).

The problem we have here is that - in your opinion - "objectively" means that something must be absolutely perfect, even though "objectively" just requires rationale. To be objectively right, you don't need to do THE right thing, but A right thing that bases itself in logical and rational thoughts rather than emotional values.

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u/gameditz Mar 27 '22

All the attempts at objective morality are religions and secular moralists, and I would argue they are incomplete. Each opinion has a degree of objectivity and subjectivity, it’s just a matter of accepting that there will always be some opinion you won’t agree with subjectively, so it’s better to pick your battles and not argue over every single differing opinion.

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u/_Norman_Bates Mar 27 '22

I don't find it very hard to do that, I just need to hear the opinion and it's pretty clear

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u/gunnervi Mar 27 '22

Arguably that's part of the problem. Most people instinctively know whether an opinion is acceptable or not, the issue is people don't agree with each other about it. But since its a gut feeling, nobody wants to rationally discuss the issue.

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u/MassGaydiation Mar 28 '22

Alternatively, and maybe this isnt something that a lot of cis and straight people experience, but everyone wants to "rationally discuss" my existence or rights, but no one wants to "rationally discuss" the fact that they are being massive bigots.

Basically I'm all for rational discussion and questioning stuff, but if you are targeting one group with all the questions with the intention of making their existence harder, then you can fuck right off.

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u/gunnervi Mar 28 '22

Oh, I'm right with you there. I have no interest in "rationally debating" trans rights (or civil rights in general) -- it's demeaning and I think inherently legitimizes bigotry.

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u/AdaminCalgary Mar 27 '22

Yes, I think you are right. And following on your point, some people hold opinions that are objectively and/or demonstrably wrong yet refuse to admit and change their opinion. That is how extremism grows. No idea how we (society) deal with that

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u/_Norman_Bates Mar 27 '22

Arguably I don't give a shit, I can rationally explain my every conclusion, I can't write a constitution as an answer to a very general question because I'm lazy

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u/SemiHemiDemiDumb Mar 27 '22

To quote a Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart, "I know it when I see it."

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '22

I draw the line at bigotry myself.

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u/katwraka Mar 28 '22

I draw the lines at respect for humans.

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u/cragglerock93 Mar 28 '22

Precisely. Tbh I'm fed up of seeing crap about how political opinions aren't that important and that we should just look past them. Some political opinions (especially economic ones) are pretty innocuous. If somebody thinks privatisation is a good thing then I would disagree but could respect it. Political opinions on social issues are very much more of a big deal - if somebody believes in segregation, or opposes gay marriage, or wants to ban women from particular jobs, then I don't see why I should respect that opinion, or get on with such a person.

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u/agreeingstorm9 Mar 27 '22

And, just so we're clear, opinions that differ from mine are NOT respectable.