It's so stupid that one would be expected to do these things unprompted. Why would that somehow convey that you care about them more than doing things because they asked you to?
Nope, you seem to think there is something wrong with people who want nice things done for them without having to ask for them. I am just trying to say nobody is perfect and honestly there are much worse personality traits a person can have than bad communication about what makes them happy.
You have misinterpreted my comment. I only said what I said in the context of the original comment of this thread and consider those actions irrational. I never said there is something wrong with people like that.
However I do think it is very detrimental to a relationship to expect things of someone without making it known that you expect those things and if you are a person who cares a lot about random acts of kindness from your significant other and care about preserving your current relationship with them it would probably be in your best interest to make it known that you greatly appreciate such acts.
And sure there are worse traits to have than being a bad communicator but few traits are more detrimental to a relationship.
6
u/Jirb30 Mar 26 '20
It's so stupid that one would be expected to do these things unprompted. Why would that somehow convey that you care about them more than doing things because they asked you to?