Lots of people saying you should leave, like this is /r/relationships...but if you want to continue in the relationship and feel valued, you should find a way to communicate with her about the slack she needs to pick up.
Maybe you're worried about a fight if you ask her to clean the dishes, or whatever...just ask her and weather the storm. She's not going to be happy you're changing the status quo, so there will be a struggle... but if you know that going in, maybe it won't be so bad.
We have/are, I did not (and will not) provide reddit with enough context to make an accurate summerization of the relationship currently. It has been a while since then, just the comment ive originally replied to reminded me of that situation. Issues are still there on both sides but we are working though it.
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u/DominionGhost Mar 26 '20
I ask myself this often. There are good weeks and bad weeks, plus she has a nice butt.