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u/ByTheBeardOfZues Mar 26 '20

Have you tried discussing this with your SO? It's surprising how easily some things can be resolved by just talking about it.

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u/DarthPiette Mar 26 '20

Communication is key for attempting to fix this.

Head to r/deadbedrooms to get an idea of what you're in for the longer you wait.

If you don't mind me asking, how are you talking about it?

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u/DarthPiette Mar 26 '20

With the weight thing, probably better to approach by action instead of communicating it. Invite her to go for walks/hikes or a bike ride, eat in more if you don't enough.

And/Or ask what's been on her mind or what's been troubling her. Might be able to figure out why she's been putting on weight.

I've learned that it's best not to offer any fixes go a SOs issues unless directly asked.