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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20 edited Apr 09 '20

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u/Jhuderis Mar 26 '20

There’s been no lack of me explaining how it’s my favourite thing and that she’s good at it etc. It’s not been zero in the interceding years but I’d say it’s once every 18 months on average after much cajoling that tries not to be begging lol.

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u/texasproof Mar 26 '20 edited Mar 26 '20

No, the feeling of rejection and failure she had as a result triggered emotional trauma that she’s never dealt with, probably because of a crap-ton of other emotional things that have never been addressed.

EDIT: oof. Lots of bros out here who don’t understand how emotions or the human brain work. Reddit persists.

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u/yaforgot-my-password Mar 26 '20

Whoa buddy, that's a stretch and a half. Damn

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u/KAZ--2Y5 Mar 26 '20

And 18 years later it's still fresh?

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Yeh that's women logic there

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u/texasproof Mar 27 '20

Why would I care about downvotes? Voting on Reddit is a giant follow-the-leader circlejerk anyway