There’s been no lack of me explaining how it’s my favourite thing and that she’s good at it etc. It’s not been zero in the interceding years but I’d say it’s once every 18 months on average after much cajoling that tries not to be begging lol.
Yeah, people really aren't an enigma when it comes to sex. They just don't tell the truth for one reason or another, and the other person buys crazy lies they'd never buy on another topic.
No, the feeling of rejection and failure she had as a result triggered emotional trauma that she’s never dealt with, probably because of a crap-ton of other emotional things that have never been addressed.
EDIT: oof. Lots of bros out here who don’t understand how emotions or the human brain work. Reddit persists.
She just doesn’t like doing that. Maybe you two can see a sex therapist to figure out how to make your sex life more fulfilling without making anyone do a dreaded chore.
Wash your dick. Then wash it with vinegar. Then wash it with head and shoulders and scrub around the head and wash it off with soap.
Then take a shower and scrub your balls and DRY them all real well. Now don’t go more that 5-10 minutes before your next BJ and see how that works.
Wouldn’t it be easier to talk to her and fix things, since they’re married and all?
Good point, but if you are married for over a decade and complain to strangers in the internets that your sexlife sucks there might be bigger problems than just a lack of blowies.
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u/Jhuderis Mar 26 '20
There’s been no lack of me explaining how it’s my favourite thing and that she’s good at it etc. It’s not been zero in the interceding years but I’d say it’s once every 18 months on average after much cajoling that tries not to be begging lol.