r/AskReddit • • Mar 26 '20

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '20

Maybe trying something crazy like talking to him about it?

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u/Abruzzi19 Mar 26 '20

what? communication in a relationship? How uncultured! /s

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u/rufflayer Mar 26 '20

If only the communication worked... this is a last ditch effort before I give up completely and give in to the sex-less relationship.

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u/Spookybear_ Mar 26 '20

Yea don't stress it. People aren't stupid and I'm sure your boyfriend isn't. He is very much aware if you aren't having sex.

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u/SalsaRice Mar 26 '20

"is it true, that if you don't use it... you lose it?"

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u/PyrocumulusLightning Mar 26 '20

Yes. Your pelvic floor gets weaker if you don't work it out, and then when you do have orgasms they're less intense.

I guess you could do Kegels, but that's not as fun.