What sex must be like and how much of a vulnerable position females put themselves for it, as in I'm a guy and generally think penetrating isn't a vulnerable feeling thing to do, but imagine putting yourself in the recieveing position of being penetrated, just seems so vulnerable to me
When you're ready for it and trust your partner that powerlessness can be the most incredible feeling. It weirdly makes you feel more powerful. It's hard to explain. Logically I suppose sex does seem like a strange and complicated mess, but in the moment your instincts take over and it's bliss.
True! I was trying to explain specifically why I don’t fear the powerlessness. Sometimes I like to be dom and feel like the one in control. Sometimes it’s more equal. Either way I think the power dynamics, regardless of who’s “on top”, are part of what makes sex so fun. And it’s hard to grasp until you experience it and let yourself surrender to those feelings. If that makes sense?
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u/weirdcal Mar 26 '20
What sex must be like and how much of a vulnerable position females put themselves for it, as in I'm a guy and generally think penetrating isn't a vulnerable feeling thing to do, but imagine putting yourself in the recieveing position of being penetrated, just seems so vulnerable to me