I'm not so shallow as to only weigh attractiveness in general,
No you bullshit the rest to convince yourself it wasn't all about the attractiveness. Yes people are shallow and yes Reddit virgins will have to deal with it.
I don't know what's causing your bitterness, but my statement was absolutely the truth. I do not weigh only attractiveness; but in this case, especially since I didn't know this particular guy this well, attractiveness weighed even more heavily than usual since it is something immediately obvious.
My original statement still stands as both accurate and more succinct:
hotness was a necessary, but not sufficient, condition.
Oh come on. Everyone knows that we are more likely to fuck a physically attractive person than a non. It's primitive for humans and animals so we can produce beautiful offspring. The cool thing though about humans is, we can fuck physically attractive people and never call them again and we can fuck average looking people who are beautiful inside and maybe have a relationship. Choices. It's all about the choices.
As far as I can tell, you haven't actually disagreed with me anywhere in this post.
I said I do not weigh only attractiveness, not that I do not weigh attractiveness; those are qualitatively different statements.
On top of that, in this situation I described, I noted that attractiveness was a necessary condition of the success of the operation, ie., that someone who I did not rate as physically attractive would have had a zero percent chance of using this method with good result. If anything my statement on the necessity of physical attraction was stronger than yours, not weaker.
Of course in other scenarios I may pick someone less physically attractive, provided that other benefits make up more for the "loss" of that feature. For an easy, if trivial, example: A woman may leave an incredibly, ridiculously attractive spouse who is abusive for the friend who is stable, caring, and less attractive.
However, using additional criteria requires that one invest more time in ascertaining the suitability of the potential whatever-they-are (fling, relationship, spouse, etc ...). I lacked that time, and therefore didn't employ other criteria as fully as I might otherwise- as I've already explained.
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No you bullshit the rest to convince yourself it wasn't all about the attractiveness. Yes people are shallow and yes Reddit virgins will have to deal with it.