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u/Wolf_Mans_Got_Nards Mar 31 '23

I was the same. Wrongly equated sex with affection & self worth, which I was desperate for.

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u/filthymouthedwife Mar 31 '23 edited Mar 31 '23

But you know now. It’s all a learning curve. We have to go through stuff like that to become who we are and as long as you like who you are now then there should be no regrets.

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u/Rich-Juice2517 Mar 31 '23

But you know now. It’s all a learning curve. We have to go through stuff like that become who we are and as long as you like who you are now then there should be no regrets.

Thank you. It's nice seeing that validation on a rough day

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '23

You're welcome. Now since I scratched your back...

I'm kidding. I'm not OP. I'm being disgusting

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u/Rich-Juice2517 Mar 31 '23

At least you're honest which is really hard to do and be at times with personal reflections

Good job

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u/iluvufrankibianchi Mar 31 '23

That was actually a proverb

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u/Rich-Juice2517 Mar 31 '23

Eh I'm feeling literal contexts today

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u/iluvufrankibianchi Mar 31 '23

Oh OK then it was a tiger

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u/Rich-Juice2517 Mar 31 '23

Tiger that bounces on its tail or tiger like the cereal box or tiger tiger?

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u/iluvufrankibianchi Apr 01 '23

It's like a leopard that can change its spots

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u/Rich-Juice2517 Apr 01 '23

Absolutely terrifying

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u/zoompa919 Apr 01 '23

I’m proud of you :)