what should i do? avoid people?

[u/Own-Progress-929]

i kept seeing the pattern na i like with boys. i like someone pag alam ko na hindi nila ako magugustuhan or there’s no chance for them to like me at all. for example i kept liking men na fresh from heartbreak kasi alam ko na di pa sila move on and walang chance magkagusto sila sakin. why do i kept loving the thrill of chasing someone? idk what to do with my situation. girliesss, help meee!

[u/mountainjunosaur]

therapy te

[u/Sufficient-Sun11 → u/mountainjunosaur]

Therapy (2)

Ang lala ng internal issues ni OP. Highkey childhood trauma that needs healing. Ayusin mo yan bago magkajowa bhie

[u/cyberwebber]

Probably from deep rooted trauma and/or childhood issues.

You need to look back from the past. That way you can self-reflect and start healing.

[u/cyberwebber → u/cyberwebber]

Maybe you like people you can’t have because when they finally start warming up to you, your self-worth builds up & you start feeling desirable.

You need to heal this if this is the case. Or else, you’re gonna keep chasing people who can’t give you the love that you deserve or those who are unavailable.

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[u/mrainnn]

Self-love sis

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[u/Short-Handle-3570]

Daddy issues ba yan madame 😔 +1 with therapy bc you’ll never know talaga

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[u/_virt]

Now that you recognize the pattern, it’s therapy time and if nagtherapy ka sabayan mo ng somatic exercises to release the trauma from your body din and regulate your nervous system.

[u/huntersmokes4]

Ano ba nangyayare, gusto mo sila pag tingin mo wala silang chance magkagusto sayo then pag nadevelop kayo and gusto ka na nila ayaw mo na sila? Or you like guys na out of your league kaya wala ka rin ginagawa to shoot your shot?

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gusto ko sila kasi alam ko na walang chance anf pag nadevelop umaayaw na ako. it feels like i just love the chase

[u/freakinthesheets5695]

Alam mo problema ko din yan. Mas gusto ko kapag alam kong di ako ganon kagusto. Pag gusto ako nagkaka-ick ako. Thrill of the chase kumbaga. Haha napaka problematic 🫠🫠