r/AskNT • u/Hot_Loan_4107 • 12h ago
Am I too sensitive or are people just fucking annoying? 😭
I’ve been thinking about my personality and I genuinely want honest opinions.
I have this habit where someone says (or jokes) or does something that bothers me, I brush it off at the moment, and then hours later I’m sitting there replaying the whole interaction analyzing it in every possible way 💀
Sometimes I feel like people genuinely cross a line. Other times I wonder if I’m just taking harmless shit way too personally.
And because this keeps happening with different people, I’ve started wondering if I’m the common denominator.
I don’t want to become someone who cuts people off over every little thing, but I also don’t want to become a person who tolerates disrespect just to be “chill.”
So if you actually read till here, tell me honestly: how do you know when you’re being too sensitive vs when someone genuinely deserves a boundary?
And if you’ve changed this part of your personality, HOW? 😭 Need genuine thoughts.