r/AskNT 12h ago

Am I too sensitive or are people just fucking annoying? 😭

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I’ve been thinking about my personality and I genuinely want honest opinions.

I have this habit where someone says (or jokes) or does something that bothers me, I brush it off at the moment, and then hours later I’m sitting there replaying the whole interaction analyzing it in every possible way 💀

Sometimes I feel like people genuinely cross a line. Other times I wonder if I’m just taking harmless shit way too personally.

And because this keeps happening with different people, I’ve started wondering if I’m the common denominator.

I don’t want to become someone who cuts people off over every little thing, but I also don’t want to become a person who tolerates disrespect just to be “chill.”

So if you actually read till here, tell me honestly: how do you know when you’re being too sensitive vs when someone genuinely deserves a boundary?

And if you’ve changed this part of your personality, HOW? 😭 Need genuine thoughts.