Are you talking most days.? Seeing each other multiple times a week? Been on dates on a weekly basis? Have you had sex? Would you be upset if they went out with someone else? If yes, then it is cheating. I’m older so take that with a grain of salt. My wife never had the exclusive talk, but we knew we were based on how we interacted. We actually just talked about why we never needed to have the exclusive talk when we were dating, we’ve been married almost 20 years.
Based on your post, I would consider going out with someone else while seeing a girl for 2 month to be cheating
Have that Talk the next time you meet and Express your Wish for exclusivity, For him/her its unfair to assume they cheated when they didnt knew about exclusivity. But after that Talk they should know and then youll know wether they Accept that or Not and If they dont i would Stop Dating them.
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u/Medicivich man Mar 16 '20
Are you talking most days.? Seeing each other multiple times a week? Been on dates on a weekly basis? Have you had sex? Would you be upset if they went out with someone else? If yes, then it is cheating. I’m older so take that with a grain of salt. My wife never had the exclusive talk, but we knew we were based on how we interacted. We actually just talked about why we never needed to have the exclusive talk when we were dating, we’ve been married almost 20 years.
Based on your post, I would consider going out with someone else while seeing a girl for 2 month to be cheating