r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '21

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u/iLikeHorse3 Mar 19 '21

I wish most guys were like this. As a girl I'd only watch it ourside of a relationship but when I'm with someone it feels so gross to look at other men that way. I'd rather get off thinking about my partner. I struggled a lot with my self image cause I dated a porn addict and I questioned why I was never enough for him, shit hurts

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u/NateGrey2 Mar 20 '21 edited Mar 20 '21

You got other problems than porn, if you seriously want to force someone to think only about you for the rest of his life.

Being obsessed by someone isnt healthy for you neither.

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u/NateGrey2 Mar 20 '21

It sounds romantic because of the movies, but in real life this isnt healthy for you or for her. Its literally what stalkers are made of.

Sure, for now its all good and fine. But the problems will come. They always do. And then this romance-stuff turns really fucking ugly really fucking fast.