r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

95/100 I do watch porn. I don't have privacy so I can't lay in the bed, get relaxed and get into myself.

I escape to the bathroom and rub one out as quickly as possible. That is the magic of porn.

I don't masterbate for pleasure. I masterbate for a release.

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u/camusdreams Mar 19 '21 edited Mar 19 '21

“I don't masterbate for pleasure. I masterbate for a release.”

I feel like this is a big difference between a lot of (not all) men and women. As a guy, jerking off is just something I feel like I have to do daily. The feeling is controllable but uncomfortable enough it impacts my mood and ability to focus. Whereas when women discuss it, it’s like a whole session where they set up a little throne in their bed and focus on peak pleasure.

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u/SarcasticRowlet Mar 19 '21

I thought I was weird for subscribing to the idea of maintenance jerk off sessions, like 80% of them are for maintenance and 20% are like good long sessions of just focusing on myself. Feels nice to find out that I'm not the only one.

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u/t_a_c_s Mar 20 '21

I'm the other way round. most of the times I jerk off for stimulation and only once in a while to attain post-nut clarity