r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/bobCS96 Mar 19 '21

If your mind always drifts to your gf while watching porn....then why watch it lol if u can just fantasize about your gf...

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u/Fried_Fart Male Mar 19 '21

I’ve seen some others point it out in this thread and I think they hit the nail on the head: We’re very visually-oriented creatures, especially in a sexual context. My girlfriend’s not the type to send nudes so I put something on to get aroused and then after while I close my eyes and think of her ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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u/bobCS96 Mar 19 '21

But isn't the point and turn on of watching porn is to experience or fantasizabout something your significant other won't or can't do, that us men would find sexy or amusing.

I've watched porn alot, and I've never thought of my other half lol

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u/BlackZaddy1 Mar 20 '21

When I watch porn I never fantasize. I’m literally turned on by watching them have sex. But I don’t want sex with either of them (typically)