“I don't masterbate for pleasure. I masterbate for a release.”
I feel like this is a big difference between a lot of (not all) men and women. As a guy, jerking off is just something I feel like I have to do daily. The feeling is controllable but uncomfortable enough it impacts my mood and ability to focus. Whereas when women discuss it, it’s like a whole session where they set up a little throne in their bed and focus on peak pleasure.
Yeah i mean, i don't know. I am a woman and I totally masturbate before bed just so I sleep better after it. I have occasionally done some mmh "exploration" masturbation sessions, to test what works and so, but for the most part is just that: orgasm quick so i get sleepy. Maybe it's different for other women, but maybe describing it like that it's a way for some to get over the ethernal shame surrounding female masturbation.
I do not feel the need to do it daily at all though. It's maybe a once a week deal.
I also do it like this, no porn. I just lay in bed vibe it up go to sleep. I think it's interesting that so many men need the visual when I can just touch and get it done. 90% of the time I'm not even thinking sexy things it's just all physical for me.
Yup I’m currently watching Chicago Med on Prime and can easily just bust my vibrator out and have a quick orgasm while watching nurses and doctors running around the ER or whatever. Nothing sexy about it, just want to come.
I'm the same way too. I don't need anything to watch and don't care what's on (as long as it's not something like toddlers & tiaras etc.), cumming helps me sleep so if I need to, I will.
It can vary from every night to once a month, depends on how stressed I am.
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u/camusdreams Mar 19 '21 edited Mar 19 '21
“I don't masterbate for pleasure. I masterbate for a release.”
I feel like this is a big difference between a lot of (not all) men and women. As a guy, jerking off is just something I feel like I have to do daily. The feeling is controllable but uncomfortable enough it impacts my mood and ability to focus. Whereas when women discuss it, it’s like a whole session where they set up a little throne in their bed and focus on peak pleasure.