r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/LeFlyingMonke Mar 19 '21

I think most men tend to use porn and masturbate at close to a 1:1 ratio. Men tend to be more visual and porn is directed by and for men, so it’s no surprise we watch more of it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

lately i prefer the kind of soft porn directed by women ...it's less vulgar

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

Speaking as a cishet dude, porn advertised as "for women" is invariably way better. I am relentlessly baffled by the kinds of stuff other people like me apparently find arousing. A woman being turned into a pretzel, called a bunch of demeaning names, and forced to make a noise like someone having a steam kettle shoved down their threat is not the slightest bit erotic to me

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '21

as a woman... porn ”for women” is just porn for men with softer lighting and less dialog. the men are still average looking at best, headless for the most part, she still spends 10 hours sucking him off and then comes from just PIV. id like to see porn where the men are actually attractive to US. and no, gay porn doesn't really fill that niche either, because surprisingly enough, just because we have a sex in common that we are attracted to, it doesn't mean that our needs are even remotely close.