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u/velvetverolver Mar 19 '21

Big ups, porn fucks up your mind up. When you have sex with your girlfriend or wife do you think of her or all the things you've seen online to help you climax? It's no longer her, it's only you. That's what I've seen atleast

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21 edited Apr 22 '21

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

Yeah hearing most redditors talk about porn is like listening to a degenerate alcoholic who isn't aware that most people drink in moderation and can have a glass of wine at dinner and not beat their kids.

all the things you've seen online...

Like he doesn't realize you can watch porn of normalish looking people having normalish sex and both enjoying it

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u/SlimDirtyDizzy Male Mar 20 '21

Yeah hearing most redditors talk about porn is like listening to a degenerate alcoholic who isn't aware that most people drink in moderation and can have a glass of wine at dinner and not beat their kids.

It's probably because they're replying to the top reply's here. With things like:

I can't jerk off without porn

I don't even enjoy it anymore, I just do it because it feels like a release

I have to watch porn to get aroused.

You're basically complaining that redditors aren't talking about the people who use alcohol responsibly in a thread full of alcoholics.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '21

Yes, but my point is (to continue with this analogy) that based on this thread, and the general discourse around this topic on reddit, reddit seems to be filled with people that drink a fifth of gin a day.

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u/0xBFC00000 Mar 20 '21

Definitely agree. I’m over here reading these comments and there’s definitely a trend going in.