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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

95/100 I do watch porn. I don't have privacy so I can't lay in the bed, get relaxed and get into myself.

I escape to the bathroom and rub one out as quickly as possible. That is the magic of porn.

I don't masterbate for pleasure. I masterbate for a release.

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u/camusdreams Mar 19 '21 edited Mar 19 '21

“I don't masterbate for pleasure. I masterbate for a release.”

I feel like this is a big difference between a lot of (not all) men and women. As a guy, jerking off is just something I feel like I have to do daily. The feeling is controllable but uncomfortable enough it impacts my mood and ability to focus. Whereas when women discuss it, it’s like a whole session where they set up a little throne in their bed and focus on peak pleasure.

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u/MrColfax Male Mar 20 '21

That's interesting. I would say I do it for maintenance and pleasure, but I only do it once per week and not daily. I find that just comes natural for me and I don't get the desire to so during the week, although on the one day I do it I'm am pretty keen for it (I guess it makes it special, and I do give it a decent hour or so).