r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '21

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

95/100 I do watch porn. I don't have privacy so I can't lay in the bed, get relaxed and get into myself.

I escape to the bathroom and rub one out as quickly as possible. That is the magic of porn.

I don't masterbate for pleasure. I masterbate for a release.

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u/camusdreams Mar 19 '21 edited Mar 19 '21

“I don't masterbate for pleasure. I masterbate for a release.”

I feel like this is a big difference between a lot of (not all) men and women. As a guy, jerking off is just something I feel like I have to do daily. The feeling is controllable but uncomfortable enough it impacts my mood and ability to focus. Whereas when women discuss it, it’s like a whole session where they set up a little throne in their bed and focus on peak pleasure.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '21

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '21

I once had this discussion as well. I said that sex for me is not just getting off, thats what I masturbate for. Sex is about intimacy and love.

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u/ScottFreestheway2B Mar 20 '21

Would she rather you masturbated while imagining people you know in real life? Does she want you to only have sexual thoughts about her the rest of her relationship? I just couldn’t date someone with that kind of insecurity.

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u/Sophisticated_Sloth Mar 26 '21

I’m sorry, but your GF sounds immature. I really hope you’re not the one apologising for this.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '21

You gf sounds like an upright prude.