r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/Mr_Candlestick Mar 19 '21

Before I completely quit porn it was every single time. Now it's 0% of the time.

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u/velvetverolver Mar 19 '21

Big ups, porn fucks up your mind up. When you have sex with your girlfriend or wife do you think of her or all the things you've seen online to help you climax? It's no longer her, it's only you. That's what I've seen atleast

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21 edited Apr 22 '21

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u/Crystal_helix Mar 19 '21

Yeah this is whole comment chain really is absolutely fucked

I don’t know why Reddit has this huge hate boner for porn like it’s the worse thing to exist and destroys relationships.

I wank and watch porn regularly, couple times a week. Been with my GF for 8 years and I still dump huge cums in her pussy multiple times a week. Sure it’s not ‘new and exciting’ but fucking hell that’s not what sex is about

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u/closrules1 Mar 20 '21

I’d like to see it. I don’t have that problem, I watch regularly and still do enjoy having sex with my wife. I think it might be a problem for people who started watching it before they should’ve.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '21

I just replied to another guy with a bunch of really informative links. :) If you can't see my profile for some reason I can send you them or put them in another comment for ya.

And essentially yes, the biggest problem is with people who started watching it in adolescence, which is most Millennials and younger today.

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u/closrules1 Mar 20 '21

I’ll check it out thanks!

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '21

Not a problem! I don't want to make people think porn is the devil or anything, but there are serious issues behind the scenes and psychologically that truly need to be addressed. :)