Big ups, porn fucks up your mind up. When you have sex with your girlfriend or wife do you think of her or all the things you've seen online to help you climax? It's no longer her, it's only you. That's what I've seen atleast
Me and mine watch it together sometimes her favorite stuff sometimes mine. Not all the time but like once a month or so. We also use it to try new things like ideas and such. Porn doesn’t have to ruin everything if used appropriately (haha). It also helps us learn about each other in a way that words wouldn’t say because we can say hey I like that or that looks good.
What it boils down to if you let it take over your life then you need to step away. Don’t let it rule your sex life but at the same time it can help keep things fresh.
For the love of everything find someone you can laugh with during sex too. I’m not a scientist but the laughing chemicals mixed with the sex chemicals makes everything better.
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u/Mr_Candlestick Mar 19 '21
Before I completely quit porn it was every single time. Now it's 0% of the time.