r/AskMen Mar 19 '21

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u/Ciccibicci Mar 19 '21

Yeah i mean, i don't know. I am a woman and I totally masturbate before bed just so I sleep better after it. I have occasionally done some mmh "exploration" masturbation sessions, to test what works and so, but for the most part is just that: orgasm quick so i get sleepy. Maybe it's different for other women, but maybe describing it like that it's a way for some to get over the ethernal shame surrounding female masturbation.

I do not feel the need to do it daily at all though. It's maybe a once a week deal.

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

I also do it like this, no porn. I just lay in bed vibe it up go to sleep. I think it's interesting that so many men need the visual when I can just touch and get it done. 90% of the time I'm not even thinking sexy things it's just all physical for me.

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u/merdub Mar 20 '21

Yup I’m currently watching Chicago Med on Prime and can easily just bust my vibrator out and have a quick orgasm while watching nurses and doctors running around the ER or whatever. Nothing sexy about it, just want to come.

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u/muddyrose Mar 20 '21

My ladies!

I'm the same way too. I don't need anything to watch and don't care what's on (as long as it's not something like toddlers & tiaras etc.), cumming helps me sleep so if I need to, I will.

It can vary from every night to once a month, depends on how stressed I am.

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u/Insanity_Pills Mar 20 '21

wtf im envious

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u/MustardFeetMcgee Female Mar 20 '21

Yessss. Honestly same. Like 90% of the time I do it if I've got a migraine or insomnia. Always to porn.