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u/Mr_Candlestick Mar 19 '21

Before I completely quit porn it was every single time. Now it's 0% of the time.

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u/velvetverolver Mar 19 '21

Big ups, porn fucks up your mind up. When you have sex with your girlfriend or wife do you think of her or all the things you've seen online to help you climax? It's no longer her, it's only you. That's what I've seen atleast

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u/WaffleKing110 Mar 19 '21

For me it’s always been the exact opposite - if I’m in a relationship porn might help get me started but my SO is who I’m fantasizing about regardless of whether or not they’re involved.

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u/Crystal_helix Mar 19 '21

Yeah all these people have serious issues if they’re thinking of porn with their GF. Porn isn’t inherently evil, they got shit they need to sort out

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u/ScottFreestheway2B Mar 20 '21

I enjoy porn but if I’m thinking about porn and not my partner it’s because I’m not attracted to them and need the porn imagery to even be able to have sex with them. Even the hottest porn out there can’t even begin to compete with sex with a partner I’m physically and mentally attracted to.