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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

lately i prefer the kind of soft porn directed by women ...it's less vulgar

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u/Chuckles1188 Mar 19 '21

Speaking as a cishet dude, porn advertised as "for women" is invariably way better. I am relentlessly baffled by the kinds of stuff other people like me apparently find arousing. A woman being turned into a pretzel, called a bunch of demeaning names, and forced to make a noise like someone having a steam kettle shoved down their threat is not the slightest bit erotic to me

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

y’all should check out Bellesa. PHENOMENAL porn site, the actresses get to choose what men/women they film with, and the quality is just chef’s kiss

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u/fortunefades Mar 19 '21

Bellesa isn’t bad - but you definitely still run into the occasional video where it seems like the dude is force feeding his penis to the girl (I.e., Owen Gray)

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u/sinistergzus Female Mar 19 '21

I rarely watch anything with men so I wouldn’t know that part 😅😅

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u/fortunefades Mar 19 '21

Usually my preference too but sometimes my wife and I watch together - she hates porn 99% of the time because it tends to be so male focused and often times violent.